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Monday, August 31, 2009

Desperation

a lady's imagination is very rapid,it jumps from admiration to love to matrimony in a moment.....with every new guy that makes her smile....or helps her out.



And all these imaginations are products of desperation, and we all know desperation is frustration that ends in disaster.



I'm not exempting myself from the ladies in this category. at one point we all feel desperate. till we remember who we are, shake it off and keep living.

These past month I've met a dozen potential boyfriends,its like a flood gate of all the cuties and uncute whose intelligence, wit and success make up for the face. every guy that's asked me out on a date, joked with me and made me laugh has got me thinking.....maybe i could learn to fall in love with him:) but of course by the time they're calling for a second date, I'm so over our honeymoon in some island and on a yatch somewhere with the next one who's made me smile:)
makes me wonder how normal i really am.

Okay, I kid. But seriously in my lifes plan I imagined being married at 22(yeah crazy), but what happens when I can't even figure out how to have boyfriends or stay commited to a guy and I'm 24? It leads to rapid imaginations and daydreams.



God help me.

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11 comments :

  1. lol
    I know what you mean,
    I won't call it desperation.
    It's just how we are.
    We really don't have time to waste on unserious dudes.

    As for life and its expectations ......*hissss

    I always told myself I wouldn't think about marriage seriously until 27! I guess different strokes for different folks.

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  2. ....if He doesn't help us, who will?

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  3. I guess imagination is the one thing we truly own..lol..

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  4. I guess imagination is the one thing we truly own..lol..

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  5. Imagination is free -- imagine away....

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  6. i will say you are not yes serious because age is still on your side. yours is the very opposite of desperation

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  7. i will say you are not yes serious because age is still on your side. yours is the very opposite of desperation

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  8. i will say you are not yes serious because age is still on your side. yours is the very opposite of desperation

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  9. I will say to keep yourself open at all times.
    Marriage can come at anytime.
    Anytime at all.
    Best to leave it to the hands that be to direct our path...
    Just my thoughts.

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  10. I think maybe you need to relax on the issue a bit{if you can help it}. I've come to the realization that most of the best things happen to us when we least expect them..

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  11. Hey babes, 'sup? How you dey? No worry jare. When you meet him, you'll know. Just enjoy being single, cos once you get married, you can't have your single life back.

    Enjoy.

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